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REST. PLAY. RESET.

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View of a beach at Depoe Bay, OR and a whale tail rising out of the water

PRESS PAUSE, FIND JOY, AND BEGIN AGAIN 

Come to a place where you can find peace within

as you REST your soul.

 

Rediscover the simple pleasure of PLAY which provides a

profound pathway to joy and is

a vital tool for growth.

 

RESET with an immersive experience designed to help you

decompress from daily pressures and

reconnect with your true self!

 

Experiencing deep relaxation with joyful and creative activities TOGETHER will

allow you to quiet your nervous system and return home with a

clearer mind and a renewed sense of purpose!

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Interior decor at SPC Hotel
View from a beach at Depoe Bay, OR
Exterior of SCP Hotel in Depoe Bay, OR
Interior community living room space - couches and coffee table
Bar top seating overlooking the bay
Community message board at SCP
Interior decor at SCP hotel
View of Depoe Bay, OR
Welcome desk at SCP Hotel
Interior decor at SCP Hotel
Front Entrance of SPC Hotel in Depoe Bay, OR
Interior community living room space - hanging chairs
Interior community living room space - eating areas
Interior community living room space - fireplace
Night time view of lit up SCP Depoe Bay Hotel
Interior community living room space - fire place
Night time view of lit up SCP Depoe Bay Hotel

Depoe Bay, Oregon Coast

Illustrated scene of the coastline with a rocky formation, sign that reads "WAY TO BEACH," owl on a turtle, bonfire, and sand castle
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A Sacred Coastal retreat

This is more than a getaway; it’s a holistic and magical experiencea chance to restore your body, awaken your joy, and step back

into the world feeling renewed.

 

You will step into a serene coastal sanctuary where every detail

is crafted for your rest, renewal, and delight.

This is a transformative retreat that guides you through deep restoration,

joyful play, and intentional renewal—

blending ritual, meditation, ocean-side experiences,

moonlit ceremony, and luxurious self-care.  

All designed to awaken your inner rhythm, lighten your spirit,

and leave you recalibrated. 

 

You will depart carrying not just memories, but lasting tools and clarity to carry the magic of your retreat into everyday life.

LODGING - SCP DEPOE BAY

Welcome to Holistic Hospitality

An eco-friendly lodge, that provides the perfect coastal retreat, located in Depoe Bay's charming harbor along Oregon's central coast, with 13 guest rooms with a water view.

 

This space uses a mindful, minimalist style, and includes sustainable and regionally-sourced

materials and includes thoughtful spaces, a full kitchen, a workout

studio, and a patio overlooking the harbor.

By staying at SCP we help fulfill their

vision of making the world a better place for the soul,

community, and planet.  They provide thoughtfully designed, environmentally

friendly places to stay, eat, relax, meet, have fun, work, and self-improve. They give

back to communities through a culture of kindness and by actively supporting surrounding

businesses, schools, and cultures. They help our planet by following green practices, offering

earth-friendly food and beverages, and, planting a tree for each guest who stays with us.  

 

Incite chose SCP Hotels because EVERY STAY DOES GOOD!

 

We believe in the power of healthy living, kindness towards others, and compassion for the planet!

Opening Evening - Crossing the Threshold 

Before anything can change, we must arrive.

You will arrive at a serene coastal bay sanctuary where every detail

has been designed for your comfort and ease.

As the sun lowers and the ocean air wraps around us, you will be

welcomed into a space designed for slowing down.

 

Your retreat will begin with a warm welcome, thoughtful

introductions, gentle intention-setting, and

a nourishing meal curated for

your body and soul.

 

The outside world will begin to loosen its grip as

your evening ceremony invites you inward through

conscious breath and sound that will help calm

your nervous system and open your heart.


You will begin crossing the threshold from doing, into being, as your

body softens and your mind begins to quiet.

 

You will have arrived, exhaled, and began to settle fully into your journey. 

Day One — REST is RESISTANCE

Rest as a radical act of self-reclamation.

In a world that glorifies exhaustion, this day invites you to stop.

To listen. To remember that rest is not a reward—it is your birthright.

Luxury will meet intention on a day that is devoted

entirely to slowing down. You will be able to explore what true

rest feels like in your body. Optional guided sessions on the

art of rest, meditation, and mindful creative expressions,

will allow you to discover that true rest is

restorative, intentional, and transformative.

 

Spacious personal time will allow you

to receive, rather than produce—   through

massage, naps, quiet moments, or whatever your

spirit is calling forward for you.


You will be able to release the weight of constant striving.

Guilt will begin to give way to gentleness.

 

Rest will become an act of devotion—to yourself and to your humanity.

A deep sense of permission and ease will settle in as you rest,

which is both luxurious and essential. 

Rest as radical self-care.

Day Two — PLAY is HEALING

Joy remembered. Laughter reclaimed.

 

This is the day you will be able to remember how to be light again

as you embrace curated experiences designed to delight your senses.

 

You will be able to enjoy ocean adventures and coastal exploration.

 

As night falls, we will gather for a beautiful sunset and beach picnic dinner, participate in a bon-fire releasing ceremony, and beneath the full moon experience and intention setting ritual that will awaken curiosity and playfulness.

 

This will be an evening where laughter, movement, and magic

intertwine and rejuvenate your spirit.

 

Play is a luxurious gift to yourself, helping connect you to

joy, wonder, and spontaneity.

 

Your inner child will feel seen and welcomed home.

Whale
Watching

Whales are highly social animals that nurture their young and engage in play, which humans find compelling and infectious. Summer and fall brings resident whales close to shore to feed from June to November. Depoe Bay is a hot spot for whales looking for food this time of year and will  often see between 5-15 whales every day!

Shop
Exploring

An afternoon of exploring and shopping awaits you at the historic downtown Depoe Bay! Perhaps you will find a special something as a memento of your REST. PLAY. RESET. journey. Along with the shops there is a beautiful long rock wall that is magical to watch the ocean, journal, and reflect! A day of discovery and joy.

Bon Fire &
Moon Ceremony

For activity and recreational enthusiasts, this is a place where no one ever asks, “what’s there to do,” but instead, “what do we do next?”  The Village’s new sports complex is the hub that encompasses the sports, fitness, exercise and play possibilities. From racquet sports and basketball to mini-golf and driving range.

Day Three — RESET is REFRESHING

The integration and renewal that makes becoming your true self possible.

 

Like the tide pulling back to reveal an untouched shoreline, this day

will be about integration and renewal.

 

You will have the opportunity to reflect on the wisdom gained during your retreat journey, reconnect with your sources of strength, and discover how to weave

REST, PLAY, and RESET into everyday life.

 

Your insights will become anchored into forward motion—gentle, sustainable, and aligned.

 

You will feel recalibrated. Clear. Ready.

 

What no longer serves you will be ready to be released,

and what remains will be ready to be rooted, intentional, and alive.

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Closing Morning — THE LOTUS

Rooted in stillness. Rising in peace.

 

Your retreat closes in quiet reverence. Through a serene closing ceremony of reflection, sound bath, and guided meditation, you will hold space to honor your journey.

 

You will be gifted a personalized Lotus Journal—your companion for continuing

your journey of rest, play, and renewal.

 

You will depart being able to carry serenity, clarity, and a renewed sense of self. Your experience will linger—not as a memory, but as a living practice of luxury, care, and transformation. The lotus blooms not because the water is still—

but because it knows how to rise.

ON-the-Grid

There is cell service, TV, and guest Internet, but we hope you'll be too busy having fun.

Important 
Information

Clothing

The Oregon Coast has cooler temperatures. Bring layers of clothing that will help you regulate your temperature for optimal comfort!

Beach Time

Transportation provided. Show up and enjoy!

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LEARN MORE ABOUT YOUR RETREAT HOSTS

Charlette and Michelle are the co-founders of Incite Agency for Change, a social enterprise inspiring hope, encouraging individual and collective action, and creating change for healthy communities where all people can thrive. Emerging from vastly different professional backgrounds, Charlette’s in nursing (RN, CCRN) and Michelle’s in public health (MPH, CHES), we have a combined four decades of experience in injury and violence prevention and health promotion. About 5 years ago, we started our business together. Now, often called a dynamic duo, we refer to ourselves as best friends, business partners, and sisters from another mister!

 

We came together around our shared passion for building community capacity to positively impact systems, structures, and as many lives as possible. The focus of our work is mental wellness, suicide prevention, and intersecting topics like substance use prevention and houselessness/housing insecurity. We recognize the significant importance of “upstream” life protectors such as building individuals’ strengths and resilience in order to weather life's challenges, and we also weave this approach into all of our work. We are certified trainers in a number of evidence-based suicide prevention trainings that we provide throughout Oregon. 

 

We both also have lived experience that makes us passionate about this topic and about offering retreats that provide an environment for healing, skill building, hope, and transformation. Charlette is a suicide loss survivor who started her healing journey at Breitenbush 20 years ago attending organized and personal retreats. Michelle also has lived experience and found a sense of hope by empowering individuals and communities to navigate difficult times. We have both supported children, loved ones, and countless others through life’s complexities, including suicide crises, and we are committed to creating a positive ripple affect with the individual and collective impact of wellness experiences like this retreat.  As well, Charlette has the lived experience of raising a child, now 24, with medical needs including open heart surgery at age 13, followed by significant and sudden mental health concerns, including suicide ideation and behaviors, time spent in a pediatric psychiatric unit, and methamphetamine and heroin addiction and recovery. 

We have both come through turbulent times, even in the past couple of years. Now, along with many many others in the world, we are facing even more turbulence for ourselves and our loved ones. We are excited to create a restorative space for all individuals where you can rest and rejuvenate in the healing waters of the hot springs (which we do as often as we can!), and experience a retreat that can help you both sit in the mud and move towards hopefulness. We often say “no mud, no lotus.” 

ADDITIONAL OFFERING & FACILITATOR

Massages by Shelbi 

Shelbi Slayter is the owner of Slayter Wellness LLC, a licensed massage therapist, and a certified personal trainer with a background in exercise science. She’s passionate about helping people move better, release tension, and improve overall wellness.

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Shelbi Slayter of Slayter Wellness LLC
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Chelle & Char sitting on a bridge at Depoe Bay
Charlette Lumby
Michelle Bangen
We hope to see
you there!

Chelle & Char

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